7/05/2015

Canceled wedding



 

Amber Roof had to cancel her wedding to husband-to-be Michael Tyo after the massacre of nine black parishioners at the Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church on June 17.
Via Amber Roof GoFundMe page
Amber Roof, the sister of Charleston church shooter Dylann Roof, was set to be married just four days after her brother killed 9 parishioners at the historic black Emanuel AME Church on June 17th. 

The couple chose to cancel the wedding to both mourn the victims and to protect their family. 

According to the Washington Post, Amber alerted authorities after seeing her brother on surveillance footage publicized after the shooting.

On June 27 she set up a GoFundMe page to crowdfund her wedding and honeymoon. The description provided for the campaign, called "A Fresh Start For Michael and Amber," makes only a vague reference to Dylann Roof's involvement in the attack.

 "Our wedding day was supposed to be the most important and special day of our lives. It was supposed to start our lives together with our new family. Our day was the exact opposite. 
 
Our wedding day was full of sorrow, pain, and shame, tainted by the actions of one man. We know money cannot replace the wedding we lost and our perfect day, however it will help us to create new memories and a new start with our new family,” she wrote.

The poster looked to raise $5,000 for lost wedding costs, to pay bills and to go on a "dream honeymoon." She also pledged to donate 10% of the money raised to the church. As of Wednesday July 1st morning, the campaign had raised $1,500 through 31 donors, the largest contribution being $200.

The crowdfunding campaign was met with criticism and support.

“I’m sorry but it is insane to me that you have the nerve to ask people to donate for a honeymoon! Look I’m sorry your brother screwed up your wedding plans, however I’m way more concerned about the people who lost their loved ones,” a commenter by the name of Melissa Williams-Stewart wrote. “They are trying to afford to bury the people they loved due to the stupidity of your brother… If I’m going to donate it will be to the families that lost their loved ones.”

Another post accused Roof of deleting comments from her GoFundMe page.

“What did you do? Delete the comments? You don’t deserve any sympathy for your poor missed wedding.  Your racist family killed innocent people !!!!!!!!!! if I saw you or your parents I’d spit in your faces!!!!!,” read a post by Scott Howell.

“I am so glad to have you as a life-long friend. You are such an amazing woman & deserve all the best things in life. You’re one of the strongest people I know! Michael and the kids are so lucky to have you! Love yall,” contributor Nicole Chmielowski wrote on the page.

Another contributor wrote he was donating because of the recent Supreme Court ruling legalizing same-sex marriage in the United States.

“Me and my partner finally have the opportunity to legally get married after dating for 5 years. I cannot imagine how upsetting this would be. Please accept my small donation as a token of my support,” wrote Corey Parks, who donated $10.

The campaign was pulled down by GoFundMe organizers on July 2nd, following media coverage of the fundraising effort. 


edited from Mashable and Global News